Building Community – A Tale of Two Approaches

Day 323: come together
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The past week has shown me a lot about building community in person and online. I thought I’d share some thoughts here.

A multi-viewed, transparent approach

I am wired in a way that I’m able to see things from many perspectives in order better understand motivations. I’m okay with being the devil’s advocate sometimes.

In the time I’ve spent online, especially in recent years, I’ve noticed that people in social media value transparency. That is one major reason why I’ve tried to be the same online as I would be when you meet me in person. I think authenticity is very refreshing, and I’m sure many others will agree.

How I became a community builder

I wasn’t really interested in founding a social media community in Cincinnati in October 2007. I was very busy with a commute and work in Dayton, Ohio. And yet, I’d become passionate about networking online with others in Dayton and the Greater Cincinnati area because I wanted to find work closer to home.

In discussions with others via Twitter, instant messaging, and elsewhere, it became apparent that no one was going to step up and get something started, so I stepped up. I knew there were many podcasters in the area already who wanted to meet up, but I also saw a need to broaden the scope. I looked at what other community builders had done in other cities, being very new to this community-building thing, and decided instead of naming the group Podcasting Cincinnati to instead call it New Media Cincinnati. “New Media” at the time was the buzz word used to describe all emerging forms of media technology.

It took a few months before I got comfortable with this new role. I was still very surprised that people were coming to events I’d organized.

Two years of learning

A lot has changed in the past two years here in the social media community in Cincinnati. Social media has become more widely adopted, and this group is joined by many other great social networking groups that meet regularly – more than I even know about.

I’d like to think the reason why New Media Cincinnati is around is to provide a vehicle for people passionate about and interested in new and emerging technology to meet together. I’ve also wanted it to be a place where someone new to social media can come and feel welcome. Others have said that I’ve done a pretty good job in creating that type of environment, both online and offline.

New Media Cincinnati social networking group

The success of a group like this doesn’t happen through just one person, and while there are many people I can mention, I’d like to especially single out Jeff Hertlein, who created the logos for the group.

New Media Cincinnati - small box logo

These logos have done so much to establish the New Media Cincinnati brand online.

A “newer” group

When I recently learned that someone else had created a “Newer” Media Cincinnati presence on Twitter, I checked it out and initially thought it was hilarious and interesting. I even reached out to see if there were any collaboration opportunities.

Well apparently the individual behind this group would have nothing of it, referring to the “newer” group as an elite one. I wasn’t sure if they were joking or not, but I was okay with playing along.

Brand confusion

Then I saw that many of the updates became targeted in an attempt to ridicule, and demean things I’ve been doing. Even further, since this individual has taken the logo Jeff Hertlein made for the group and added upon it, it’s no wonder that many have become confused. It would appear that the “New Media Cincinnati” brand is being undermined.

In an effort to clear up confusion, I’ve spent some time engaging people directly through private messages on Twitter, to let them know that this other account is in no way related to me and the group I run. To some, it was a surprise since they had been confused. To others, it was no surprise. All were grateful.

Personal attacks

The individual hiding behind this other account has gone at lengths to publicly mock what it is I do through the Twitter account. I have been “called out” for being a “poser”. This individual likes to point out that I currently don’t have a job, which is true. I, like over 10% of the working population in Ohio, don’t currently have a job. I’m working on that.

Some say I should let this go and just admit that criticism is going to happen.  I’ll accept that to a point.  It appears that this person, who has the ability to stop receiving updates from me by simply clicking an Unfollow button on Twitter, instead wants to take what I am saying and who I am and twist it into something stupid.

The individual behind this account has crossed the line, as evidenced by many others who are telling me they are trying to get as far away from this person as possible.

Because these comments have been targeted at me personally, I have wondered if there was something I’ve done to make this individual upset. If that is the case, I would really like to do what I can to reconcile or at least understand where this person is coming from.

Different approaches to building community

So, I see two very different ways of building community at work. On one hand you have someone hiding behind an online presence, tearing other people down. This person creates confusion by repurposing another group’s brand identity. Harassment and impersonation. Division. What does it say to you about someone who can simply unfollow someone on Twitter but instead looks for ways to be critical?  What does it say about individuals who align themselves with someone like that?

That’s certainly one approach to building community. Some would say this is the “newer” approach.

Then you have another approach. I have openly shared who I am and what I’m about. What you see online is basically what you get when you meet me in person. You can choose to follow or not; it doesn’t matter. I want to be useful, but I’m also using social media for my own purposes. If it’s not for you, fine.

I began having New Media Cincinnati community planning conference calls a few months ago to help clear the air and talk about what’s working well and what we can do better. This group remains open to anyone interested in the social media space.

Which type of community do you prefer?

[photo credit: Day 323: Come Together]

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  • Michelle

    Dan,

    I think you have done a wonderful job of making New Media Cincinnati a welcoming community for new folks as well as for those of us who have been coming for a long time. You are completely transparent and authentic, and those qualities make you who you are; part of your brand image so to speak.
    I disagree with your statement that there are two ways of building of communities in reference to the New Media Cincinnati brand and the recent entry, New(er) Media Cincinnati. I think the individual involved is not building community. To me, the tweets that have been released by New(er) Media Cincy smack of good old fashioned bullying.

    When children exhibit bullying behavior, it is usually an indication that some major issues are going on in their lives and this is their way to feel powerful. Obviously, New(er) MediaCincy has crossed over the line from parody into demeaning, destructive, bullying statements. The ironic thing, is that considering that Twitter is such a public space, this person is only hurting themselves further. Once their identity is revealed, I would imagine that not many would have an ounce of respect for them as the information travels through-out the web. Social Media is all about the conversation- this person has thrust themselves into the stream and they are sinking….

  • bobpautke

    Daniel (may I call ya' “D double J?”); You have nothing to apologize for and everything to be proud of. You have given selflessly; supporting others and their cause without strings. You have brought focus, energy and great minds to New Media across the 'Nati. Job Search is more than full time work, and yet you work, and volunteer, and give, and all with a smile and positivity.

    Here's to Daniel, a hearty thanks and one bit of advice:: be you, we appreciate You! And don't succumb to the dark side. Let Darth continue to sting him/herself into mediocrity. Cheers!

  • jasonalba

    I'll ignore your final question and speak to the person you are talking about.

    In my three year career I've been harrassed and even stalked by at least two people (two that come to mind immediately).

    Both have mindsets and attiitudes that I just don't understand, and at least one has significant mental issues (that's my guess).

    You can't win – just ignore, and MOVE ON.

    I finally got a stalker to leave me alone when I blogged about him – at least, he's been quiet since then.

    I'm amazed at how much time people spend tearing others down – but you really do need to move on. As you become more successful, you will surely have more of these types trying to tear you down.


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  • foxydot

    Daniel, I've been in your shoes and while I can't call what I have to say “advice”, I can tell you how I approached it.

    About 10-12 years ago I was very active (publically) in my religious community. Since people of my ilk don't have a central authority, community organizers are generally the closest thing we have to “leaders”. I expended a great deal of time and effort trying to organize events that were, free, safe, accepting of all comers, and where everyone left “happy”. Some people were disappointed; others felt the need to make noise about how they would have “done it better” (note that at the time, very few of my critics were willing to step up and actually DO anything better. They just thought I was doing it all wrong.)

    At first it riled me, but over time, I decided to step back and focus on the people who really wanted to spend time working and learning with me. I focused on creating a high-quality organization for a few people rather than a huge “everything-to-everybody” organization. I ignored the attacks as best as I could, and if someone asked me about an attacker directly, my response was always “s/he serves a purpose.” (I discovered that nay-sayers stick together. The critics were gathering people to them that *I* wouldn't want to be circling with and keeping them well away from me!)

    I know you and I have very different views on many things, but I respect your views and all that you've done for the New Media Community in Cincinnati. As my friend the Diva says, “You're a nobody until you've got HATERS!” So don't sweat it. And don't for a second think that what the nay-sayers are doing is community building. Communities built that way thrive on fear and distrust, and don't last long, if at all.

  • http://www.larakretler.com larak

    Dan, you have a great post and insights here. I've seen the Columbus social media community plagued by anonymous haters too – they spinelessly attack those who are out in front, whether individuals or organizations. It's frustrating and when you're the victim, it hurts and makes you angry! My best advice is to ignore it and keep doing the great work you are doing. Hope our paths cross again at a social media event soon. Cheers to you.

  • jimbenson

    While we all know you're a good person, you need to learn to handle things a little more professionally. Whether the asshole makes valid points or not, what does it matter? People can't attack what you don't put out there and unfortunately you being a very open person are vulnerable.

  • http://www.expertintherough.com/ Brian Monahan

    Daniel,

    You have made it. Once you are spoofed or mocked you know you have done something good.

    You need to ignore this person. You cannot win fighting with an anonymous person since they do not have to live by the rules of standing behind their own words.

    I have had a similar situation with someone spoofing my blogs at work. I just decided to give it no attention because the attention is what keeps them going.

    Keep up the great work.

    Brian

  • Sledge

    “First they ignore you, then they laugh at you, then they fight you, then you win.” Mahatma Gandhi

  • Tai Goodwin

    What's the point of being part of community where there is no trust or respect? I'd much prefer to connect to someone who seeks to build up instead of tear down…and like usually attracts like.

    I don't know the person who is causing the confusion, but what is proven here by the responses to your post is that you are respected. And many How I Got My Job alumni (like me) have trusted you with sharign our stories.

    Keep up the work you are doing. While you may not be being paid, I am quite sure those that benefit from what you are doing appreciate it.

  • mikeboehmer57

    You have done a fantastic job bringing some great people together with New Media Cincinnati. Keep up the good work!

  • mikeboehmer57

    You have done a fantastic job bringing some great people together with New Media Cincinnati. Keep up the good work!

  • mikeboehmer57

    You have done a fantastic job bringing some great people together with New Media Cincinnati. Keep up the good work!

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